Screw you douchebag!
Ahhhh,it feels good to be home.13 hours in the plane was really pain in the ass..
Didn’t know i was such a slut myself after i read Sun’s(my douchebag ex boyf) comebacks from his ‘girlfriend’s’ blog. *smiles bitterly*
Well,i wasn’t expecting comebacks especially such a ‘truthful’ and ‘brilliant’ one i must say,if you get what i mean..because i thought i was just trying to express my feelings on my previous post,and share some experience that i had with my readers.I didn’t mean to startlet war but oh well,seems like i already did.And i tried making things short on the previous post,not much personal details because i was trying to protect Tiff.You know,after all,its very shameful to the girlfriend if your boyfriend got busted in public.To me too,having people to know that i actually have a ex boyfriend like this.
But i realized,he’s more detail than me!Okay,shall we not wear masks and pretend that you’ve come clean or you’re even so clean?
So seriously,quit acting.
Oh,you actually already tear half of your face off yourself already,but the remain half…
LET ME DO IT FOR YOU.
Before i start this long entry,lets give a round an applause for our best actor Joseph Sun.What a touching,warm-hearted post you’ve got there.Protecting your girlfriend to get hurt from spammers and all…Pretty tacky.
OR YOU’RE JUST PROTECTING YOURSELF HUH?Bitch.
After reading Sun’s post,the first thing that popped into my mind was a sentence that someone once told me ‘he could do this to me,he would do this to you too’.But i was too naive to not believed in her,and too naive to believed in him.I seriously don’t want to bring up unescessary people into this war but i think i have to mention a few things bout the past in order to have more evidence to proof that the prince charming with innocent puppy dog eyes isn’t so innocent at all.
The person who told me the sentence was Sun’s ex gf before me,and we had a big fight.Of course,everything happens for a reason.But ironically it was the same reason lor!
Sun told his ex he still loves her alot,and give her calls.She did tell me the truth and warned me,but then i thought she was trying to ruin me and Sun’s relationship because he told me that she was the one who dumped him because she had affair with some other guy.And he says that she was the one who called him,begged him to patch back..(I don’t know if its even true or not about the affair part,so no harm to anyone.)
But i realized one thing,everything comes in both ways in order to make it work.Problems wouldn’t occur if it only comes in one way.
I think it was the main thing that led us into a fight,blog wars and we were dealing so much issues with each other.And i was defending him so hard,getting so much insults and he’ll just tells me scandals about his ex so that i could blog about it.I was doing all this by my own when i was 16,HOW STUPID I AM.
I’m such a puppet.
Then,i reread the posts last year i wrote about her,i felt like digging a hole and just hide my head in there.I couldn’t even believe i wrote such things and i actually even did this kind of stupid things.It was rather embarrassing.Hence,why i’ve deleted all the posts i’ve wrote about her.
If you’re my reader from two years ago,you might have know the story…And my definition of fight,as in its really fighting..Sun was the one who has to settle everything,because he’s responsible for it.But when all of us were already out,trying to settle stuffs,he didn’t show up.And i was in a club by my own with two of my girlfriends dealing his shits for him.I remembered it was in Maison,and he doesn’t even care a shit even he knows that his girlfriend might get whack or something. But the thing what he feared most is people getting back at him.
He was such a coward.
And the most interesting part was,he had one night stand with other girls outside..and he got a tight slapped on the face real hard by the ex because he slept with some other girl.But he acted all hero and said he is actually protecting me because his ex girlfriend wanted to hit me but she hit him instead.He was practically lying to me since the day i met him.
Sun,you talk more than your actions shows.Just like you shit more than you eat,creating bullshits more than real facts you have.You mock your ex girlfriend,you mock me,you even mock your own current girlfriend.
Do you need me to remind you what you’ve said to me?When you asked me back to you, i asked you a question,how Tiff attracts you?You answered me in Cantonese,‘Lei mou teng goh hao poh yong yi kao meh?’
Translate:Haven’t you heard that sluts are easier to get?
You will always explain to me,how annoying she is…how much you don’t like her.You even explained that you’ve made out with girls in clubs when you’re with her and show how unfaithful you are to her just because you want to get me back.
AND YOU WOULD ALWAYS TELL ME THAT YOU NEVER REALLY LIKE HER.
Even till Dec 15th,you told me ‘Bell,you don’t understand.Its not what you think,i really have nothing towards her.’
I fucking swear to god you’ve said this yourself,explaining to me how much you don’t care bout her.You even asked me to ask her,how the way you’ve treated her has never been the way you’ve treated me.If you never decided to get me back,DO NOT EXPLAIN BECAUSE IT DOESN’T EVEN MATTER.And how shallow can a guy be when he told you he love you fifteen days before,and fifteen days after he could write on another girls blog telling her he love her.Oh god.
Anyways,it really doesn’t matter anymore.HAHA,because this is not the main point.Its not the most important thing.
And Sun,how do you even dare to say that i will show you black faces if you don’t have a car to drive me here and there?
SUN,YOU NEVER HAVE A CAR.And the whole bloody 2 years,you’ve been driving my mother’s car.And now?You’re talking shit to your girlfriend’s readers about cars?Even now you’re driving your father’s car.And you can’t even fucking drive your dad’s car on weekends because he needs it.You often take things for granted,you can drive my mum’s car,if i am with you.But you can’t fucking drive my mum’s car only just to hang out with your friends.Because its not your bloody car!
You know,i never mind him not having a car.If i do,i won’t even take a fucking KTM from my house,Serdang to the malls in KL to meet him when i don’t know how to drive.I lived in a very restricted area which doesn’t have many buses passing by,i’ve to walk about 5 kilometers out to my guard house and farther more to catch a bus to the KTM station to meet him.I’ll always be there around 1pm and he is always late.He wouldn’t show up till 3pm or 4pm.And me on the other side,strolling the malls like an idiot and don’t even dare to have lunch myself because i thought i would have lunch with him,but he’ll never show up after 4pm.I never ever had a proper lunch on Saturdays,the timing was all wrong.
Even on his 21st birthday,i booked a table,baked a cake and he never show up.Yeah he did,8pm at night.And our date was like 2pm?We argued,and he said something that hurt me so much ‘I come so early for what?Even if i come early i wouldn’t even expect that you’ve something for me lor!’I threw the cake away,and i wanted to break up with him instantly.Do you know how it feels when you burst out crying in the mall and having your highschool friends bumping into you?I know how it feels,it feels awful.Very awful,and you hate yourself so much by doing everything but he never had a chance to enjoy it.
I’m not trying to compare who’s being a better boyfriend or girlfriend,i just wanna prove that everyone care in their own ways.Sun,if you think i’m such a bad girlfriend,you should dump me before i dump you.
I never put a gun on your head and say ‘You must wear nicely only you could match me’.
I never put a gun on your head and say ‘Your clothes must be expensive.’
I never put a gun on your head and say ‘You cannot wear cap and tee shirt.’
I scare i cannot match you only lor,you so ‘wei sui’,your cap so expensive..all branded stuff wor…if i want to show off to anyone about my boyfriend i will even ask you to buy more so that i can show off abit how branded my boyfriend could be…And most of my clothes are from Sungai Wang lor,i should be the one worrying that how can i match you lor. I’d always tell him,save some money.Don’t buy such expensive things.So Sun,don’t fucking bullshit infront of everyone about how i’ve treated you,i’ve treated you far beyond good enough.And my mum too,she has been treating you as her son but what you do is go tell everyone that she’s looking down on you?
And you know what?Mainly of your pictures in my posts,you are wearing cap and tee shirts.SO WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TRYING TO PROVE?
Sun,since when you could even write such a good entry?I knew that Tiffany wrote this from the first paragraph i’ve read.As if you wrote this post yourself.FUCK YOU.And if your English had became so good,please define the word ‘affair’.
Maybe Mr.E and i had something going on,it was just merely texts and phone calls.We never dated,don’t even mention bout holding hands nor kisses.On the other side,Sun,do i really need to share about your ‘i don’t feel like going home’ story to everyone?I broke up the first time with Sun its not because of Mr.E,its because Sun have cheated on me,having a one night stand with his long time no see secondary ex girlfriend.He claims that she was the one who made the move and turned him on,when she was only planning to find him for a cup of tea and have their little reunion.But i guess they had their reunion on bed.Tsk tsk…He says he was so sad because i had been texting with with Mr.E so much and he was emo,he didn’t feel like staying home,that’s why end he went back her house and the rest was history…i never ever wanted to tell this to anyone because it is very embarrassing for me,so ashamed to let anyone know my boyf had actually cheated on me when we look so sweet on the surface.
And its not like the first time he had cheated on me,there’s a few guy friend’s of mine who bumped into him in clubs with other girls,and he asks my friends not to even tell me about it.They didn’t want to get involve,but they did warn me in another way till then they told me the truth.
So i broke up with him,and he bought me flowers giving me all kinds of promises…and i thought..chances may be built.
And Sun,if i told you he kissed me on my forehead and i’ll feel sweet about it,IT MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU TO GET ME BACK.
I really don’t understand what the fuck is in boys mind,they go out,have one night stand and come back to you and promise to that he would be loyal and it doesn’t make them a cheap slut,but on the other hand,the girls might just flirted a little on the phone and it makes them sluts and whores and must burn in hell..Whoa,you can win the whole game even without putting effort in it.They are so confident because they know that eventually we’ll just forgive them easily.
After this,Sun’s still a loser who gives me empty promises and i totally hate the way how he disrespects my mum.It really disgusted me day by day,and he tries winning sympathy from my close girlfriends by telling them i asked him to come to my house and i locked him outside when he came.And of course,i confronted him…he didn’t even fucking dare to explain himself,he just stared at me dumbfounded,and started apologizing when he doesn’t even really mean it.You think my girlfriends will believed in your grandmother stories?
Sometimes things happens just in the right timing.I met this guy J,and I do text J alot,that time i was already totally sick of Sun’s i-don’t-give-a-damn attitude,what he cares is about his computer games,his streetwear and parties…
Never attempt to care about his future,when i cared about so much for his.But he never gave a flying fuck about what i’ve told him.I asked him to retake his SPM,go to college and enjoy his life while he can.Because i never want to see my boyfriend hiding inside a shop working 10am to 10pm when he’s still so young.He is a very smart person,and i know he would succeed if he really put effort in his studies.BUT HE NEVER GIVE A FLYING FUCK.So then i broke up with him because i’m so tired of nagging and letting him failed me,and after a few weeks,i went out with J,and everything happens so fast.But hey,come on,we are grown ups.And i don’t think its even Sun’s business when i’ve nothing to do with him already,he’s not even under my responsibilities already.but now,he could put little puzzles into pieces,expand and exaggerate it because he never thinks that the break up has something to do with his own problems,and yet,he blamed on everyone if he could.
How funny it is that he could even make up a story like this…
Yeap, when my birthday i cant really make up my mind and I’m still miserable between love and memory. But when i make my decision once again, ask you not to came to my party what you told me? You did nothing, you just wanna see your friends and gathering here. I even yell at you i could remember clearly NOT TO COME. Ok, lastly you did came. I’m not suppose to shame you in front of your friend that’s why i dint ask you to leave. That’s is the reason she left. Not because she’s coward but to full fill your childish behaviour that you thought its your party but she was actually the gf of the birthday boy. She came back after you left, in the other day you call her after my birthday? Telling her i hug you? Owh god why don’t you tell her that you sang to me while I’m drunk? If you tell her that honestly I’m sure that she will trust you and leave me as you wish. Too bad, you don’t dare to tell her you were treating me good but telling her i lie to her and i treat you damn good. What’s your motive bitch?
Tiff left to fullfill my ‘childish’ act?Give me a break.
Tiff has a curfew and everybody knows that,she left because she has to leave.And don’t even fucking mention to me about her coming back after i left,because it really makes you a total fucker you know that?Because your girlfriend prepared everything for you and she went home,having us enjoying the party while you kissed me and hugged me,giving me hopes and then after we left,she has to sneak out 5am in the morning and her highschoolmate,Ashley has to call me to ask your number 8am in the morning because she got busted by her parents and they even went to your house to look for her.
What is she?A sex toy?
HOW PATHETIC IS THAT?
And the most pathetic thing you could do is,you invited me to your birthday and your turned me off the last minute.Yes,at the end i still came because i didn’t want to give up for the last minute,and i prepared presents already.If you really thinks that you didn’t want to shame me infront of your friends that’s why you didn’t ask me to laeve,SUN,you’re fucking wrong with your words.
WATCH OUT WHAT YOU’RE TRYING TO SAY.
I came and you gave me hope,as a friend i patted your back when you vomited.And you hugged me,telling me that you were so happy that i actually came and oh please.You weren’t even drunk.You were so sweet when you hugged me and the other minute when Tiff called,you could lie to her infront of my face that i’m outside with my friends and you disgusted the shit out of me by asking her to trust you because you wouldn’t do anything unfaithful to her infront of my face but you actually hugged me and gave me hope like 1 minute before you had a convo with her?
Motive?Do i need to have motive to screw you,because you are pretty much screwd by yourself already.
Sun,i don’t know should i even say that you’re stupid or you’re fucking stupid…If you want to lie,at least make sure that you’ve a hundred percent confident to cover up your pathetic lies.You bought the crystal after we broke up?It should be October…
Why does the warranty card stated Dec 15th 2009?You bought it on the day of my birthday party and now you’re full of bollocks.And you bought it at Mid Valley,which is the newest Swarovski outlet which has just recently open on the end of November.
Another lie,‘Now…i admit i did so many thing wrongly for both of the girl. I wanted to revenge so much before but it brings another side into tears. I’m wrong, I’m sorry, I’m glad that you can still forgive me.’
He says he just wants to hurt me as revenge but ended up she’s the one getting hurt.
BUT WHAT IS THIS?
SO NOW WHAT?You happy?I didn’t want to make everything so ugly because honestly you were my boyfriend before.I was planning to keep it all to myself but now you screwd it up by your very own hands.You want to ruin me by your pathetic stories?
SCREW YOU FIRST.
If i’m so messed up like what you’ve said,you are definitely very fucked up.BE A MAN,or at least grow up.Don’t have to grow up alot because i know you don’t have the ability to do that,at least grow up abit ok?
Yeah,i’m very childish,so what are you going to do about that?I’m only 18 and you’re fucking 24.
And Sun,blogging is really not your thing(as if you wrote this post by your own),so my greatest suggestion for you is to stay in the shop continue selling chinese herbs,or maybe start enrolling into college?
You know,YOU’RE RUNNING OUT OF TIME.
Yeah,i’m a bitch.And you’re a hypocritical delusional fucked up douchebag i’ve ever met,but i didn’t know you were such a bitch too.
It must be a reason why you failed twice in your relationships,you can’t just blame everyone but not yourself for it.You never learn,never admit your fault and the the biggest mistake that you’ve made is admitting that you’ve fault in your girlfriend’s blog ,acting so noble writing out the ‘truth’ in your girlfriends blog but they were all covered up with lies too.It doesn’t really make you look any better,and certainly you’re not helping your girlfriend.
Time for you to think of something new to lie about,this is over.
No love,
Bell.
P/S:I know its very stupid to deal with such a person by writing such a long post,some of you might say ‘i don’t care’ but i can’t.I’m not a person who can just sit down accepting someone else’s accusation.Humans are skeptical and they hear what they want to hear,they think what they want to think.But really,believing in Sun?I felt sorry for most of you,because it truly shows that you don’t even know him.
This is all so dramatic i know,but life’s a drama.And please give me a break and acted like you guys had never ever had dramas before.Everyone’s dramatic in their own ways.
OMG! this is a really LOG POST!! >.<
i didn’t really read !
cheers!
ah ..
but then i still kepo wanna know what happen ^.^
so i read it at the end…:)
.
hey Girl…your life story was like WAW~!!!
you are 18 only riGht…
yo..
still a lonG way to Go in ya life lar :P
cheers~!
.
and then hor …
mouth Grows on others face…
brain Grow on others head…
hand Grows on others arm…
we tak boleh buat apa apa kan ^.^
just shut them off lar …
haha..but cakap aje easy …hard to do it ~ OMG :P
cheers !
yay life is so dramatic.
guys always thought girls will forgive them easily, but in fact, girls really do.
that’s why guys will never appreciated girls.
you’re still young.
live your life to the maximum.
and you should feel lucky to reveal his true face before it’s too late.
=)
screw the pokerface guys, thumbs up for a girl like you!!! i had enough of them!!!
hey, Bell!
I love ur post, not bcz it is cool, is bcz this is the chance to let those boys wake up from their lies~
U showed the warranty card and I’m thinkin how he can contiue his lie again.. And if tat post reli not posted by him but her, I reli hav no idea wth wrong with the gf..
Cheer gal!
great!thumb up~finally u show the real face of him!!
lolx who be your next boyfriend is so unlucky..
i think they betta don’t treat you bad if not they will gonna be like SUN.
if you want somebody to respect you,please respect others first
although i don’t know you,but see from your picture i can feel that you’re a bad attitude and hot tempered person like what Sun said.
both of you also got wrong,you don’t have to write all this shit out..
you thought that it will make his reputation down?it also will make you have a bad reputation!
[Thing]So you are the correct one here?HAHA.From my picture?YOU MUST BE BLIND LOR.Tiffany,just use your real name ok?Don’t have to act…I don’t care bout reputations really,some people always tries to find chances to bring down a girl like me,and you’re the first one.If both of us were so wrong,why not you go tell him off instead of being such a ke poh here telling me what’s right or wrong.
haha.. Good..
[thing] I felt that u are so damn smart, can see ppl’s attitude through picture? What a God eyes u having. But if u really have, see around ur ppl and find out who having attitude problem also.. oh yea look at urself? :\
Bell,can u accept me in ur FB? I wrote a msg there as I’m ur reader.. thx.. ;)
How you know i am Tiffany?you must be good in imagination =)
but you’re wrong,i’m not Tiffany!
i’m just one of your reader since last 2 years..
i kept silent whenever you talk cocks until recently..
my ex boyfriend treat me very bad too but i never make his reputation down.
because i know both of us also got wrong.
can’t be couple also can be friend right?what for to become enemy?
=.=”
i wonder is ‘thing’ also reading sun’s blog? if ‘thing’ is so sick about it, then why you still keep updating yourself about her post? and belle is 18, what more do you aspect? is just part of the life.
belle: i believe that when a couple break-up, there was many underlying issue hidden inside your relationship..if you think that he is not the Mr.Right and you choose to leave, no one have the right to blame on you because it is your life and you have the right to make your own decision, coz you are the only one who have to take the responsibility for it.
For me, it just a choice to be made~so, live your life babe!
not every can become friends after break up.maybe not now.
[Thing]HOW CAN YOU NOT BE ANGRY AND STILL BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX BOYFRIEND IF HE HAS DONE SUCH THINGS TO YOU?Whoa,you must have a damn good heart.Ni hao wei da lor!Sorry i’m not so well behaved like you,so generous,even get step on your own tail also won’t bite back.BECAUSE I AM NOT YOU.And really?You’re my reader and kept silent whenever i talk cock?Then you don’t have to read my blog,and who are you to tell me off even when i talk cock.Come on,give me a break.If you said i’m trying to ruin his reputation,sorry i disagree with that.Blame on himself for being such a jerk,for doing such things and got busted.He asked for himself.Thing,i don’t care what ur ex bf did to you and what action did you take because i’m not you,as far as i concern,i only know that im not a person who can remain silent and not do something when i have real evidence to proof him wrong.BECAUSE I AM ME.
Are you clear enough?
[B]Hey!My FB inbox is kinda messy,could you please send another msg?Sorry for that.And thanks for being so supportive =) Happy New Year!
babe come,calm and don’t need to give a damn anymore.
you’re tired and injured do you
zhe yang ye hao,right.
finally you see his real pokerface..
you dont need to tears for him anymore,forever
disregard everything whose hurts you so much
loves too.take care
yes yes yes!!!you are you..
i can accept you said you’re childish because you are just 18.
but hey,everyone have to grow up..how long you want to maintain this attitude?
and don’t you feel shame to post all this things up?
he’s jerk and you fell in love with a jerk?
both of you also did the wrong thing,you shouldn’t scold him in public(your blog)
i know it’s your blog,you can write whateva you want.
but please think before you write.take care..
thing,you are a fuckin fuck coward,you did bitchy and please dont try to hide what fuckin whatsoever now,just move your ass away and keep your mouth shut,okay?please
random reader passed by, and just wanna say, :”Yes, screw him, douche bag!”
Cheer Up =’)
Bell, I jz send a msg to u.. ;)
Well, ‘Thing’ is so cute u know. A ppl can follow ur blog for 2 years jz to reading about ur ‘talk cock’. She/He must be a very patient ppl and tahan until now only break the ‘Silent’.. Brilliant! :)
agree with B!
are you guys her dog?did she pay for you to protect her?
but i think you should censor the link from the picture you post…if not there will be trouble~
she is deserved and you’re not,bitchy Tiff or fans of the slut tiff??whoever which bitchies.
interesting.
so go away la…now! okay?
then who you are? what should you be?
Wow.. Dog can online, can typing? Dog protect ppl can get money? Whoa! Amazing..
How about u here? Get pay too? Dog too?
i hate this girl called “thing”.
how on earth would anybody give any trust in a guy like Sun?
from what she wrote, this guy totally deserves it.
some men do cheat, and some men don’t.
those who do, they don’t deserve anything from anybody :)
hi my name is junhann and i just wanted to drop by to say somethings.
1.ppl who are supportive of bell which is good should just stay that way.
2.mocking another person doesn’t make you a nice/honorable person.
3.this matter is between the three of them so if you have thoughts of your own, go have your own drama to feel it first hand.
4.this entry was intended to let ppl/spammers come here and talk cock sing song bout it.
5.know where you stand as a person, so you wont go over board with the entries/spamming that you think might help.
6.bell is a person too, so posting your fake names and fake msgs would hurt her.*think about it if you have a brain.
7.feel free to retaliate.
have a nice day spammers.
sorry erorr *shy*
4.this entry wasn’t intended to let ppl/spammers come here and talk cock sing song bout it.
Its true that we should forgive and forget..
but guys like Him? making the wrong move again and AGAIN?!?
HOW TO FORGIVE? HOW TO FORGET?!
By the time you forgive and forget, he will be doing something wrong again!
PLEASE LAH, ppl who say they can forgive their bf for sleeping with another girl is bullshyt lah.
(this is to people who ask Bell to forgive n forget)
So everytime your bf sleep with another girl, you forgive him over and over again? Wah dam kind, every cheating bf would want a gf like that.
As a girl, i feel that 90%(NOT ALL) of guys nowadays do not have self control.
They sweet talk you one min and next you caught them flirting with another girl.
Your ex? even worse..
Times like these may be hard but glad you made the right choice, you know you deserve better.
So much better..
[Thing]you’re sun or tiff’s dog ??
whatever shit comment u had posted here also protect on the fucking boy sides, and bell is the one who did wrong?!
shame on you that you still dare to mention that you’re bell’s reader since last 2 years.
if you’re dislike bell attitude and whatsoever, just move away your fucking ass from this blog la!
(Thing)you’re bitch? If we’re the dog of bell, then how about yourself?
R u the dog of Sun or Tiff?
Pheww,finally I’ve finished this post.
omg this guy are such a coward,glad that u had made the right choice,cheer up :)
Well, most of the things i wanna say have already been said by the reader above. The good ones la ofcourse. but theres one thing ive noticed after reading his current gf’s blog. ur photo taking skills are way better than hers lor, Sun looks uglier in her blog. HAHA
[thing]
Put yourself in others’ shoes.
If your ex did that to you, could you be friends with him again?
If that’s a yes you can, bravo! You’re a saint!
And saints don’t go to people’s blog and crap.
Anyway, Tiffany isn’t a slut, she’s just another victim; being so blind because of love. It’s okay, she will wake up sooner or later.
Cheers :D
the car part is the worst leh
seriously like takin u for granted
:s
wow this post is like the greatest cover up exposed !!!
now we all know the true face of your ex ;)
its pretty sad for tiff too but no matter what we say, nothing much can be done…she’s in love and she’ll never accept the truth…as long as we’ve warned her, thats the best we can do, so just let it be…
ditch the past and look forward girls…more things ahead await us…
[thing] : Bastard! I thought Bell never scolded Sun in public (her blog). That’s just her feeling, this’s her blog. You can choosed not to read if you thought that she’s wrong with that but not make nonsense here.You said that Bell’s supporters are dogs? Than you should be worst than a dog.Boo you!
Sun & that girl… both are so childish. Some people take some time to move on b4 they look back & laugh at mistakes; but i suggest U can already turn your head back now & laugh AT them. U’re too young to waste time on these silly things. U go grl! ;)
her fault, your fault or his fault doesnt matters.
embarrassing? yeah its really embarrassing. you, her, him.
its a hard time for you, but its also a hard time for her.
just let it go. she couldnt stand the pain TOO.
she’s innocent, i guess.
well, everyone make mistakes, as long he/she wants to change why not give him/her a chance?
dont you think you/him/her deserves it? =)
hey i am one of your readers. i think that blogging about ex is an immature thing to do. don’t get me wrong, i am not condemning you. but i feel that if you would want to warn people about this guy, then don’t do it so harshly. i am not siding anyone but how would you feel if other people condemn you in their blog? to show that you have fully grown up and matured from the previous relationship, a simple and straight forward sentence warning other gals would do.
:) bell, good as a future lawyer! u did a great job by producing evidences! BRAVO. he’s a total asshole okay. & u helped tiff’s blog hit. hahaha.
cheer up yea. hugs.
What an asshole,regardless of how the storyline might unfold in the very end i’m sure that us girls have done our very best. Right here backing you up babe,happy belated 18th & you’re the doing right thing voicing out.
XX,
missycheerio.
cheer up girl!!! ;D
smile! :)
And the most interesting part was,he had one night stand with other girls outside..and he got a tight slapped on the face real hard by the ex because he slept with some other girl.But he acted all hero and said he is actually protecting me because his ex girlfriend wanted to hit me but she hit him instead.He was practically lying to me since the day i met him.
-SERIOUS SHIT?
I SERIOUSLY THOUGHT THAT HE WAS PROTECTING U
AND I WAS ANGRY WITH U BCUZ I THOUGHT IT WAS WRONG FOR U TO NOY HELP HIM
OMG, IM SORRY
he drives your mum’s car?
omg i dont even know that
I broke up the first time with Sun its not because of Mr.E,its because Sun have cheated on me,having a one night stand with his long time no see secondary ex girlfriend.He claims that she was the one who made the move and turned him on,when she was only planning to find him for a cup of tea and have their little reunion.
-i blamed u for that “affair” thing, omg im sorry
i did believe in some of his grandmother stories
she has to sneak out 5am in the morning and her highschoolmate,Ashley has to call me to ask your number 8am in the morning because she got busted by her parents and they even went to your house to look for her.
-poor girl
im sorry for not listening to your side of story
cuz u never told me
im sorry bell, sincerely
sorry if the link that I gave u made u so angry…. all I want is for u to see what he wrote bad about u …. the fact is.he is so not gentlemen…and from this point u can just beat him up….giv him all this bad words like MCH< MCB and whatsoever…. well, stil,I hope u can just let it be..cause he will sure get this so call karma…….I AM SO SURE…dont worry, it just the matter of time…so make urself calm and move on…dont use too much energy on this cause it aint worth at all..i really do think that….:) so , u deserve a better one..let tiff to take over ur JOB and she will know one day….SERIOUSLY…. wish her luck :)
take care, and sorry again :(
support belle!
owh, im sorry im late for this . But in anyway , bell jiayous : )
Cheer up sweetie. Live your life kay! :) They are just somebody that shouldn’t be care. And i hope you could really cheer up. Stay sweet and keep your sweet smile smiling every minute <3 :)
Hey Bell ,
Finally you stand up and show your ex true face !
Yup you made a right decision , hope you’ll move on and have a great life !
Happy New Year =)
p/s : Don’t ruin your mood coz of him , it’s not worth it !
Jiayous :D
Wow! You go girl!!!! And I never realized it was 2 years ago when I started reading your blog.
cheerup girl..support u anywayzz…
i’m ur new reader ^^
although i was poor in english..
hope to hear u soon..
take care..
*thumbs up*
i totally know how you feel.
like how can they cheat one second and then say sorry and promise shit the other second.
and the whole thing just repeats itself again and again.
chances can be given but i guess not more than twice. if he can do shits to his ex. he can do shits to you.
reading your post reminds me a lot of my ex which is too, a jerk that use to lie a lot.
these people don’t worth your time anymore. :)
i just browsing the internet to find the nice words of the day…and hey, i found this blog. i feel sympathy coz i was on your shoe before, so i know how it feel…but at the same time im laughing when i read those taboo words…you really good on making expression your words, nice! go girl! life must go on! just forget him and erase that bastard from your life ok! life the live to the fullest and relax ok! go girl, cheers!
complicated >.<
Nice, took me one lecture to finish the post. I didn’t know Sun was 24 till now. He seriously should do something abt his life. Guess he not only LOOK young, he behaves like how he looks as well. Well bell you are young & free you deserve and can find better. All the best babe (:
hey ,i was reading ur blog very very very long time ago (which i dont even remember how long LOL)
i knew what happened between u and Sun’s ex gf before u (i read her blog , too)
he is such a jerk seriously!!
hope the pity Tiff will wake up from Sun’s lies
Bell,
I think I m kinda understand your feeling,
because my friends faced the same prob as yours….
You did a great job ^^
Keep it up and live your life to the fullest…………
GO GO GO!!!!!
U know why I love to read your blog???
I still rmb when the 1st time I visited your blog, you r talking about your german step-dad at that time…
U know what, My family is in germany too ^^
what a coincidence…
Btw..I love your blog ^^ it is so happening ……
Keep it up K..
i totally understand and feel what you’ve said. i was in your shoes, and still am in your shoes man! i’ve broken up for almost a year u know, like about 11 months. But it was’nt a clear cut. because my ex, who is an equally horrible stupid douchebag kept quiet and did not responded to the breakup. And then he left for UK to further his studies n he didnt even told me. After 3 months there, he has a new gf! I mean, last time he used to promise me so many things, say so many bullshits, words of assurance and man, guys can really heal so fucking fast. You know when i dated this guy, he does’nt have a car, so i have to fetch him. And he told me that he does’nt have money, no time cause he wants to study, n he even lectured me on how bad is the ecomnomy now that we should not spend unnnecesary money! So u knw what we did? I always pay for my own, n i didnt mind. I dated him for 4 years regardless of all those bullshit he bombarded me with. He is so dman fucking fake in a sense that he pretended he is so career minded. Whenever i ajak him go anywhere he will say no cause he want to study, the next thing is ull see him going out to play with his friends!! N then he said he is a guy who doesnt flirt n dont take pictures with girls, talk cock. The next thing i know is he is taking pictures with ten girls altogether!!! Damn cemerlang rite?? And u know whats the bestest part?? He is in UK now, n he is goign everywhere with his new gf, kononnya no money, no time, wanna study. I wanted to write this in my blog initially, but oh welll….been so long, so i guess nvm. But guys are born douche la, i think. they all have this douche character in them, it just depends if they have good control over it. Really. Its good for u to have this experience at 18, cz when u get older (like me) its not easy to let go, u know old d ma….so a bit more susah compare to young ppl.
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veli proud of you bell. i tink u done a good job letting pplz noe the true sun!!! n dat stephiie lim told u all those laz time was to protect u.. but i tink laz time u said the thing about her affected her reputation veli bad.. but now all pass dy so u guys ok?
Firstly i don’t understand why you got with him. His english is really bad and it gives me a hdeache. I do think he’s the lala type. the way he leaves you waiting for HOURS is very bad. A real gentlemen shouldn’t keep a girl waiting for more than half an hour unless he’s got good reasons. and the way he said ‘Why should I come early? I wouldn’t get anything anyway’ I do not know the whole story and yeah perhaps you did go wrong on certain things but from what he said he doesn’t seem like a good guy AT ALL. honestly guys who can’t live without going to clubs aren’t that much of boyfriend material.
hi bell,how are u? i’m your blog’s new reader. :) my 2-yrs-ago ex bf was like yours too, or maybe worst. i bet their brains grew on the asses, they can’t think. thank God u broke up with him. you should celebrate!! :D i wonder if his current girlfriend still believes in him, after being called a slut by her boyfriend. :P God bless, happy new year!
ar ha,one of ur readers.x) thumbs up and I’d even scolded few bad words on SUN when Im reading your blog. Congrat to u, you have made a right choice, you left him.NEW life is coming.
I have read through the whole long post of yours,totally understand your situation.
Guys are always full of craps & shits.
Forgive him & spare yourself from all these. At least this coward makes you to grow up
And don’t let the existence of this kind of coward happen ever again in your life.
Thanks for sharing & please be strong =)
Bell,
keep on your own way and style..
There’s nothing wrong with you..
im a girl, I understand ur feeling..
Anyway, you are a nice girl..
Be strong and take care..
Support you forever..
was that the guy you taught him how to use the public transport instead of taking cabs so frequently??
just another random reader passing by….
the best thing to do now is just to get on with life and not let stuffs like this affect you…
its no point wasting your energy on ppl like this..
all the best!! cheers!
take care..
i pity his parents for having a bitch as a son..
guys like his type are parasites..
treating girls like toys..
he’ll get his lesson one day..
his lies will soon backfire and he’ll be left with nothing..
glad u got urself out of all his bullshit..
Hey Bell, just wanted u to know that I’m really proud of u for being strong enough to walk away. U speak for all girls who are and were in your situation. Don’t ever blame yourself for it. Take it as a lesson learned in life but don’t give up yet at the same time, don’t trust too easily. The guy’s an ass. He should get his dick cut off. He doesn’t even deserve one because he doesn’t know how and when to use it. He’s a low-life scumbag who doesn’t respect girls. U deserve so much better. Even your ‘rival’ supports u now. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck :)
ps: If I were you, I’d publicize his face everywhere and tell who he really is so other girls are warned. HAHA.
Hey, I just stumbled by from Yan’s blog cos the title was rather interesting.
Well, although the post was rather long with some fiery pepper scattered here and there, but I read every bit of it. Good post!
Just curious about some of the comments here saying that Posting about this is immature?
My answer to these “self-called judges” here is simple: Let her voice it out! She has the right to do so! I mean what right do you have to say that this is wrong?
I wonder if they are the ones who are immature themselves and that they couldn’t handle this very fact of life: the world just isn’t always beautiful and it’s not always sunny days, and she’s a human not a robot.
Blogs are essentially journals of a person, a sort of online notebook, an unfinished story book and novel or to a degree to some, a diary of a person’s life (maybe this is not a private one) where a person can share his experiences, a persons satisfaction with something, or just a piece of writing where people know on what’s happening without actually even knowing her personally (in my case). Although, I do agree that maybe I do not know what the actual case is but from her side of the story alone, I would say, she’s got my support hands-down. But the fact is that the author of the blog, through the internet means have got every bit of right to every bit of ranting however the person sees fit, without having to actually face these judges. I wonder if the judges would rather see a person commit suicide themselves due to depression rather than see a person voice out his/her dissatisfaction in a better way than many else.
And, to learn to forgive and forget is not easy. I used to be easy on forgiving and forgetting, but I’ve learnt the hard way that in doing that, you’re just letting everybody plant feet in your face and stepping on it. It doesn’t make sense, you might think that you’re doing something kind by forgiving him, but the fact is that, the other person sees you as being soft, and the next time, it’s gonna hurt plenty more and he’s not gonna feel a little bit remorse as he’s taking you for granted. For the person who wants her to forgive him, my suggestion is don’t follow, lest you want to fall into another trap of his and get involved in another tissue wetting using scenario again.
Anyways, by writing all this out, you’ve just warned the next guy.
Which is a good thing, the next guy would think twice about cheating on you,
lest we wants some “extra” advertising and people talking about him all over the cyber-space.
BTW, I’m a guy but I can already feel what kind of douche-bag he is,
but oh well, hopes everything will turn out fine for you and keep up with blog!
P/S: Sorry for the long comment,
I just felt the itch to write =D
(I nag like an old man I guess lol)
Little Bell and Sun(if you are reading this),
I believed both your Revenge column has became the “Entertainment” for most readers/forwarders.
Whatever problems in a relationship are between two of you. No point to spread it out like this unless you want to get some attention like “Eh see! that’s the gal!! or that’s the guy!!” while walking in public. Learn as you grow.
Cheers & Happy New Year!
Came across ur blog by accident but hey, i cant believe any guy in their right mind would have treated you like that. Seriously, u’re a beauty n u should b treated like a princess! At least that’s how I would have treated u LOL. Alright, seriously, just throw a pebble in the street n chances are that it’ll land on a guy who’ll make a better bf than he ever did. U shud b happy Bell, u’re moving on to something better!
well…it’s lyk reading a novel~~finally i know the truth…
get to know ur blog from my high school best friend (Natalie Saw)…
i tot Tiff is the 1 who ruin ur relationship…
so now i know after reading the whole post…
u do the right decision…cheer gal..^^
Come on! Seriously! What a bastard he is. Bravo to you, Bell! You are brave and intelligent enough to defend yourself. I condemned such a bitch when I was 18, but I think yours are way better than mine. Cheers!